In the whirlwind of life married to a vascular surgeon, it’s easy to find your narrative intertwining so closely with your partner’s that your own plotline seems to blur at the edges. But who says you can’t be the protagonist of your own story, even while cheering from the front rows of your partner’s surgical saga? As a franchise owner, mother of three sons, and a seasoned veteran of cross-country relocations—from the charming landscapes of North Carolina to the vibrant vistas of Tennessee, and finally, to the dynamic diversity of California—I’ve learned a thing or two about carving out space for personal dreams amidst the demanding cadence of a surgeon’s life.
Embrace the Chaos—With Style
Let’s face it: Life with a vascular surgeon is anything but predictable. Emergencies don’t have the courtesy to schedule themselves during office hours. But amidst this chaos lies an opportunity—to develop a resilience and flexibility that becomes your superpower. As for me, running a franchise while managing a troop of lively boys taught me to find humor in the chaos. Burned dinner because of an unexpected parent-teacher conference? Congratulations, it’s take-out night, and you’ve just been promoted to the coolest mom on the block.
Building Your Empire
Running a franchise is no small feat, especially when balancing the demands of family life and the erratic schedule of a surgeon spouse. It demands discipline, passion, and a sprinkle of audacity. The key? Setting boundaries and having an unwavering commitment to your vision. My journey has taught me that success is not just about thriving in your career; it’s about how you uplift those around you while doing so. It’s about showing your sons that ambition and compassion can coexist, and that success is sweeter when shared.